Before the surgery: Preparation, questions, and emotional comfort

The time before surgery is about more than tests and forms. It is a chance to ask questions,
clarify expectations, and make sure you feel emotionally ready for the journey ahead.

Initial consultation and honest conversation

Your first in-depth consultation is where you and your surgeon establish trust. You can talk about
what bothers you, what you hope to change, and what “a good result” means to you personally.

• Goals and expectations: You share your reasons for considering surgery, whether they are physical, emotional, or both.
• Medical history: The surgeon reviews your general health, past surgeries, allergies, and medications.
• Available options: Different techniques may be explained, with clear pros and limits for each.
• Privacy and respect: Sensitive topics are handled confidentially and without judgment.

Medical evaluation and pre-operative instructions

To keep you safe, your surgeon may request routine blood tests or other basic checks.
You will also receive practical instructions to prepare your body for surgery.

• Medications and supplements: You may be asked to stop blood-thinning drugs or herbal supplements for a certain period.
• Smoking and alcohol: Quitting or reducing smoking significantly improves healing and lowers complications.
• Hygiene: You may receive instructions about washing the area and what to avoid before surgery.
• Logistics: You will usually need someone to take you home and be with you for the first hours after the procedure.

Emotional readiness and support

Feeling nervous, shy, or emotional is completely normal. This surgery touches a very intimate part of who you are.
Some people find it helpful to speak with a trusted partner, friend, or counselor before making a final decision.

A good surgeon will never rush you. You should feel free to take time, ask follow-up questions, or request
another consultation before scheduling the operation.

During the surgery: What actually happens on the day

On the day of your surgery, the focus shifts to safety, comfort, and following the plan you agreed on with your surgeon.
Knowing the general steps can help reduce anxiety.

Arriving at the clinic or hospital

You will check in, sign any remaining consent forms, and change into appropriate clothing.
The medical team will confirm your identity, the planned procedure, and any allergies or functional needs.

Anesthesia and pain control

Genital cosmetic surgeries can be performed under local anesthesia (numbing the area),
local anesthesia with sedation, or general anesthesia, depending on the type of surgery and your medical profile.

• Local anesthesia: You are awake but the area is numbed so you do not feel pain.
• Sedation: You are relaxed, drowsy, and may remember very little of the procedure.
• General anesthesia: You are fully asleep, usually used for more complex procedures or if medically preferred.

The procedure itself

Once anesthesia takes effect, the surgeon works according to the plan discussed with you.
The goal is to achieve the desired changes while respecting natural anatomy and function.

Most genital cosmetic surgeries are completed within one to two hours, although this can vary.
Throughout the procedure, your vital signs are closely monitored by the medical team.

Waking up and immediate recovery

After the surgery, you are moved to a recovery area, where nurses watch you as you wake up.
It is common to feel a bit disoriented, cold, or emotional as the anesthesia wears off.

Before you go home, the team will:

• Check your comfort level: Pain control is adjusted as needed.
• Explain early care: How to sit, walk, and protect the area for the first days.
• Give written instructions: So you do not have to remember every word spoken when you are still sleepy.

After the surgery: Healing, expectations, and follow-up

Recovery is a process, not a single moment. Your body needs time to heal, and it is important to treat yourself
with patience and kindness during this phase.

The first few days: Swelling, rest, and gentle care

Swelling, bruising, and mild to moderate discomfort are common after genital cosmetic surgery.
Your surgeon will usually prescribe pain relief and may recommend cold compresses to ease swelling.

• Rest: Avoid standing or sitting for long periods; change positions and listen to your body.
• Hygiene: Keep the area clean as instructed, usually with gentle washing and careful drying.
• Clothing: Loose, breathable underwear and clothing help reduce friction and irritation.
• Medications: Take prescribed medicines exactly as directed, including antibiotics if given.

Returning to daily activities

Many people can return to light daily activities and desk work within a few days,
depending on the exact procedure and their overall health. However, pushing yourself too quickly can delay healing.

Your surgeon will give you specific guidance on:

• Driving: When it is safe to drive again.
• Exercise: When you can restart walking, sports, or workouts.
• Sexual activity: When it is safe and comfortable to resume intimacy.
• Travel: If you are a medical tourist, how long you should stay before flying back home.

Follow-up appointments and monitoring

Follow-up visits are an important part of your care, especially for intimate surgeries.
They allow your surgeon to see how you are healing, adjust recommendations, and answer any new questions you may have.

Do not hesitate to contact your medical team earlier if you notice anything that worries you,
such as strong pain not controlled by medication, heavy bleeding, or signs of infection.

Seeing the final results

While some changes are visible quite early, the final result of genital cosmetic surgery takes time to appear.
Swelling needs to go down and tissues must soften and settle into their new shape.

Over the following weeks and months, many people report:

• Improved comfort: Less rubbing, pulling, or discomfort in everyday activities.
• Better confidence: Feeling more at ease in intimate situations.
• Greater alignment: A closer match between how they feel inside and how their body looks or functions.

Is genital cosmetic surgery right for you?

Only you can decide whether genital cosmetic surgery feels right for your body and your life.
What matters most is that you are making an informed, voluntary choice, based on realistic expectations and good-quality medical advice.

If you are still unsure, it may help to:

• Have a second opinion: Speak to another qualified specialist and compare recommendations.
• Reflect in private: Journal your thoughts, concerns, and hopes about the surgery.
• Talk to someone you trust: A partner, friend, or counselor can offer emotional support.